How To Be Confident (for real)

        Confidence is one of those things everyone strives for, but few can completely achieve. With today's pressures of society, I can assure you that no one on the face of this earth is completely free of insecurities (If you are, I admire you). I would totally be lying if I said I was 100% confident, but it has been a heck of a journey and for once I feel like I am becoming unapologetically myself, you know? The key to confidence is understanding that there is only going to ever be one you and whatever idea of perfection you have in your head is never going to exist. If you are ever feeling like you are "not enough", start thinking about your favorite qualities, and you will forget about anything else. If you live your life hating yourself, you are the only person that is going to have to deal with that everyday. Self love starts with you, and can affect your whole life. Understand that you only have yourself and focus on bettering who you are, not trying to achieve what you're not. Think about what would happen if you started thinking this is my body, this is my face, this is my life. Time spent striving for something that isn't you is time wasted. You are you, and it's time to present the best version of yourself to the world.

Thanks so much for reading!
- much love, Suzan J